Main > SCA Proc > General Instructions > Active Listening
- First Impressions
- 55% of what we communicate is through our tone of voice
- only 7% of what we communicate is through WORDS
- Particular challenge for Live Chat
- What we write must convey the information our visitor is looking for using a tone that sets him/her at ease
- Positive Language
- Use positive words or phrases
- "great question"
- "it is great you have looked into other options"
- Don't introduce negative words
- let your visitor know you appreciate his input and show what you can do, not what you cannot do
- Focus on the positive
- Use positive words or phrases
- Persuasive Language
- simplest words have the greatest impact
- use the power of emotion over intellect
- replace intellectual words with emotional words'
- Emotional word: there's more; intellectual word: additionally
- Emotional word: help; intellectual word: aid
- Emotional word: let; intellectual word: allow
- Emotional word: if you decide; intellectual word: should you decide
Active Listening Responses
- Acceptance response (acknowledges you heard them)
- I see
- I understand
- Repeating (don’t add new content)
- Purpose of repeating is to highlight key words or phrases to indicate you have identified the most critical components of the message
- Say those key words or phrases verbatim so the customer understands you have heard him correctly
- Paraphrase
- State in your own words your understanding of what you heard
- Use paraphrasing when you want the speaker to know that you understood him/her
- Clarify
- Used to gain a clearer understanding of the speaker’s situation and to move the conversation from broad generalizations to specific facts
- “Let me make sure I understand you”
- Ask clarifying question when:
- You want to move the conversation to a more specific area
- When you are not clear about what the other person meant
- Summarize
- Assures both the listener and the speaker that a complex message was received and understood
- To summarize – restate the key components of the conversation
- “Okay, let’s pull all of this together…”